Many men ask me questions about their relationships. The most frequent question I get is “how to know if she is the one.” That is a good question to ask but first, you should be asking:
Should she get a second date? Or a third date?
Before you get to the place of wanting to propose, you should make sure there are some character traits that are upright and good.
What is an indicator that should should get a second date?
The answer I give is “how does she talk about her friends and her co-workers?”
* Does she see the good or does she have something to say about how they could be better?
* Does she say “I love her but…”
* Does it seem like she is always in a fight or drawn to drama?
* Is she always agitated with someone?
Chances are she is a gossip or a quarrelsome woman (those two tend to go together) and you are in for trouble because how she talks about them is how she will talk about you when you are not around.
For lack of wood a fire goes out and where there is no whisperer quarreling ceases. As charcoal to hot embers and wood to fire, so is the quarrelsome person for kindling strife. Proverbs 26:20
A Continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike. To restrain her is to restrain the wind of grasp oil in one’s right hand. Proverbs 27:15
Better to live in the corner of a house than with a quarrelsome wife. Proverbs 21:9
It is better to live in a desert with a quarrelsome and fretful women. Proverbs 21:19
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